Body Language Newsletter
Body Language Newsletter Approachability is only partly about the words that you use. Sometimes your body language has more impact, but we are often unaware of it, and you can be sending cues inadvertently. Here are three things to bear in mind. First, the one which perhaps gets the most attention is eye contact. We know it's important. We are biologically and culturally programmed to consider it significant. But there is a current impediment, and that's your mobile phone. Frequently nowadays, people are looking down and checking messages or shutting off alarms or surfing the world wide web, even if people are speaking to them. Your eyes will be the sweetest tell about where your attention really is. People notice, and if you are distracted and looking elsewhere, they will detect and oftentimes feel insulted consequently. Following that, there is your smile, or lack thereof. A genuine smile is a clear indication of warmth, but it is also something you can not pretend, an...